How to have G-spot orgasms
G-spot vibrators are one of the most popular sex toys for bodies with a vagina. It’s hardly surprising given that this pleasure zone has earned a reputation for being difficult for so many to find and stimulate to the point of orgasm. So, let’s consider what this mysterious G-spot is and whether it really exists. And if it does, how can you encourage a G-spot orgasm using sex toys?
Spoiler alert: We’ll look at the best G-spot vibrators as well as bullet vibrators, Pulse clitoral stimulators and rabbit vibrators. You’ll understand how these sex toy categories can play in G-spot orgasms very soon…
What is the G-spot?
The G-spot is said to be an area on the front wall of the vagina, towards the person’s belly not spine, that can produce pleasure, arousal, orgasm and the ejaculation of fluid when stimulated. In popular culture, it’s often considered a ‘magic button’ in bodies with a vagina – press the G-spot and that body will orgasm. If only it were that simple!
How the idea of the G-spot began is subject to debate, however, it is usually attributed to a gynecologist named Ernst Gräfenberg who was concerned about how often his female clients didn’t orgasm during sex. He believed the difficulties related to an area a few centimeters inside the vagina where erectile tissue surrounded the female urethra and moved and swelled with arousal.
Years later, sexologist Beverley Whipple found a similar area and called it the Gräfenberg spot in honor of Ernst. Since then, it’s been abbreviated to the popular term ‘G-spot’.
However, ground-breaking research by urologist Helen O’Connell suggests that the intense sensation experienced as a G-spot orgasm may actually be stimulation of the clitoris. Here’s why…
The clitoris is often thought of as just a small nub or bulb outside the body, near the top of the vulva. It turns out there’s a lot more to the clitoris than meets the eye! In fact, the clitoris is actually shaped like a chicken ‘wishbone’ and extends deeper inside the body.
So, the G-spot is not really a distinct ‘spot’. Instead, it’s most likely to be a complex bunch of tissues connected with the part of the clitoris that extends deeper inside the body. Based on the research by O’Connell, pressure on this part of the clitoris when aroused is probably the intense sensation felt as a G-spot orgasm.
How do you find the G-spot?
Even though the G-spot may not be like other body parts that can simply be indicated on an anatomical diagram, some bodies with a vagina certainly do experience an orgasm in that area. As for where it is, the answer is that it depends.
Everyone is different. Anatomy and sensation vary across individuals. This means that there’s nothing ‘wrong’ with being able or unable to locate the G-spot or to experience or cause a G-spot orgasm.
Generally, however, the G-spot is said to be anywhere between 1 and 3 inches inside the front wall of the vagina. Some people describe it as having a spongy texture, whereas others say they don’t notice a physical difference.
For adults who want to find the G-spot area, it’s important to set safe, consensual and realistic expectations. Rather than ‘feel’ for a specific spot, it can be helpful to pay attention to how different areas respond to touch and stimulation.
The most effective way to find the G-spot is to lie down and enjoy some bodily self-exploration, entering with no expectation of pleasure or orgasm. Approach the activity with an open mind and an intention to notice your sensations, moment to moment, without judging your experience as good or bad. It just ‘is’.
First, try to stimulate other hot spots so you feel more relaxed yet aroused. When you feel ready, gently insert one or two fingers inside the vagina with your palm facing upwards.
Tip: When penetrating the vagina, whether with a finger, penis or sex toy, it’s always best to use lubricant. Even if the vagina feels naturally ‘wet enough’, adding lubricant will reduce friction and potential discomfort and increase your pleasure potential.
With your finger/s now inside your vagina and facing upwards, make a ‘come hither’ motion. Repeating this stimulation may cause the tissue, the so-called G-spot, to swell. Everybody will respond differently.
For some people the stimulation is uncomfortable, while others get an urge to pee, but this goes away and pleasure takes over. Repeating the come hither motion then causes the cervix to push down into the vagina and the pleasurable sensation continues to orgasm.
During G-spot orgasm, it’s not uncommon to release some type of fluid from the urethra. It can happen during arousal or intercourse too. Generally, there are three types of possible fluid: urine, a urine-like substance, or ejaculate.
Releasing urine during penetration is usually due to incontinence, and may also occur when laughing, sneezing or coughing. If it’s the urine-like substance, then that’s probably ‘squirting’ because muscles around the bladder are making strong contractions.
However, the commonest fluid released during G-spot orgasm is female ejaculate, which some report as resembling watery milk. Chemically, it’s similar to fluid secreted from the male prostate.
How do you have a G-spot orgasm?
When it comes to orgasms for bodies with a vagina, two types get the most attention: G-spot and clitoral. If you’ve heard of a blended orgasm, that’s both of these combined.
G-spot orgasms are often sought-after because of their rarity and, in some people’s opinion, greater intensity. They’re relatively easy for some to reach, but typically require effort and some bodies with a vagina have them rarely if at all.
To illustrate, consider these findings: only 65 percent of women usually or always orgasm during heterosexual sex, compared with 95 percent of men. This means around one in three women go orgasm-less during penetration.
Many reasons for this ‘pleasure gap’ between men and women have been proposed. And, it’s not necessarily due to penis size or sex skills.
Given what we now know about the anatomical connection between the clitoris and G-spot, some bodies may be less orgasmic from vaginal penetration than others because of their anatomy and sensitivity of their G-spot tissues. Another possibility is that their clitoris may not have received enough stimulation to ‘warm up’ the G-spot area.
It’s also important to realize that the sexual response cycle is complex, with many factors influencing if, when and how individuals orgasm. There are physical, emotional and relationship factors bearing an influence, along with social, cultural and spiritual dimensions.
That said, there are ways to encourage G-spot orgasms and particular sex toys can offer the easiest and most effective help.
G-spot orgasm step 1: Start outside
As the category name suggests, G-spot vibrators are designed to help bodies with a vagina have a G-spot orgasm. With so many G-spot vibrators available it can be difficult to know which one to choose. And given that the clitoris and G-spot are anatomically linked, it may be worth having more than just a G-spot vibrator on hand. So, here are the best SVAKOM vibrators and expert tips for pursuing a G-spot orgasm whether you’re solo or partnered.
An effective way to encourage a G-spot orgasm is to start by stimulating the vulva with a high-quality sex toy.
For example, SVAKOM Tulip is a bullet vibrator ideal for use on many parts of the vulva, such the inner lips, outer lips, clitoris and vaginal opening. Tulip has a rounded tip to focus powerful vibrations on external pleasure zones. Use it to stimulate the outer vulva before progressing towards the clitoris. To cover broader areas, simply the sides of Tulip’s shaft and notice how its ribbing enhances vibrating sensations.
For bodies with a vagina who enjoy oral sex-style stimulation, the SVAKOM Pulse Series is perfect. These sex toys use SVAKOM’s patented Pulse Technology to push and pull air, creating a suction effect that stimulates the clitoris. For a truly unique experience, try SVAKOM Pulse Galaxie. This award-winning clitoral stimulator is making adults see stars!
Picture a clamshell-type object. Lift the top half to reveal a nozzle that delivers air-based stimulation while the bottom half projects a starry light display on your ceiling. You can even pair it with the SVAKOM App to customize the suction and light settings, as well as text chat, video call or let a partner take control at any distance.
G-spot orgasm step 2: Go inside
When your arousal levels increase following vulval, particularly clitoral, stimulation, then try vaginal penetration with a G-spot vibrator.
Generally, G-spot vibrators are designed to target this area with a precisely shaped shaft and angled head. However, there are many variations! The sex toy you choose should be not only designed for the purpose but also suit your individual needs and preferences. For example, do you want a G-spot vibrator that is firm or flexible, slim or girthy, smooth or textured? You can read more about how to choose your vibrator here.
SVAKOM Cici 2 is a best-selling G-spot vibrator for good reason! It has a ribbed, angled head to target the G-spot. However, the shaft is semi-flexible so that more pressure can be applied.
Cici 2’s very slim style is perfect for bodies with a vagina who: are new to vibrators; have been sexually inactive for a while, or want a narrower shaft. Overall it’s 7 inches long and 1.9 inches wide. The more important specifications are its insertable size: 4.7 inches long and 1 inch wide.
Making Cici 2 even more comfortable is a heating function that warms the head to 38°C. Apart from mimicking body temperature, this increases blood flow to the contact area to boost arousal.
Settings are controlled via buttons on the toy so you can easily explore 5 patterns and intensities of vibration, and use the heating function independently.
Other features include: a memory function that resumes on the last setting used, a travel lock to stop accidental turn-ons, USB-recharging port with dust cover, and battery indicator lights. Waterproof construction allows for easy cleaning and use in the shower or bath.
Turning Cici 2 into sextech, it pairs with the SVAKOM App so you can pursue pleasure – and G-spot orgasms – your own way. Use the app to access bonus play modes, create your own based on drawings, music or environmental sounds, and interact with a long-distance partner.
If you're after a G-spot vibrator with a similar oval head to Cici 2 but more width, consider SVAKOM Iris.
For bodies with a vagina who want extra power, SVAKOM Amy 2 is a favorite. Featuring a flexible curved shaft, it provides broad coverage while pushing up against G-spot tissue thanks to its flat-press head.
Another option is to use a rabbit vibrator, which stimulates the clitoris and G-Spot simultaneously. Many SVAKOM rabbit vibrators. Their two-part design features a shaft for vaginal insertion and an external stimulator that remains outside the user’s body to place over the clitoris.
SVAKOM Chika is a powerful rabbit vibrator with a flexible shaft and cushioned head shaped to target your G-spot and is also compatible with the SVAKOM App, increasing play options.
For those who want maximum G-spot stimulation for a rabbit, popular options are SVAKOM Trysta Neo, which targets your G-spot with a rolling ball in the head of the shaft.
There's also SVAKOM Aylin, which is also a rabbit vibrator and it stimulates the G-spot with pulsations in the shaft head.
G-spot orgasm step 3: Aim for pleasure
As you pursue a G-spot orgasm, whether during masturbation or vaginal sex, remind yourself that this takes patience and skill. Make time to explore and understand your unique body.
It can also be helpful to think of pleasure, not orgasm, as your goal. So if you feel frustrated about not climaxing, remember that as long as you are experiencing pleasure then you are achieving your goal.
Go for it your way
Ultimately, sexual pleasure is yours to define and explore as you please (along with any other consenting adults joining your journey). Whether you want to focus on your G-spot or other erogenous zones, a high-quality sex toy can be exactly what you need.
