Guide to prostate orgasms

Let's talk about P-spot orgasms for him. No, we're not referring to the penis. We mean the prostate, an erogenous zone inside the body that can be stimulated for intense pleasure regardless of sexual orientation. Learn how to find your P-spot and explore its potential with our guide to prostate orgasms and vibrators.

What is the prostate?

The prostate is a small muscular gland usually found in bodies assigned male at birth. It’s involved in making the seminal fluid found in ejaculate and propelling semen from the penis. The prostate is also surrounded by sensitive nerve endings that can lead to pleasurable sensations when stimulated, so it’s often referred to as the P-spot or male equivalent of the G-spot. 

How do you find the prostate?

To find the prostate, you’ll have to enter the backdoor! That’s because this gland is about two inches inside the rectum. However, the prostate can be stimulated indirectly via the perineum, which is also known as the taint and is the skin in between the scrotum and the anus.

How do you know you’ve found the prostate? The answer depends on whether you’re stimulating it from inside or outside the body. It helps if the body with the prostate is aroused first, because that makes this gland swell.

If you’re accessing the prostate from inside the body via the rectum, it tends to feel like a fleshy bulb of tissue. 

If you’re trying the indirect method via the perineum, the prostate will feel softer and fleshier. You might be unable to feel the actual gland but touching it can make the prostate owner feel like they need to urinate. 

What does a prostate orgasm feel like?

Prostate orgasms can be an all-over body experience that literally makes the body shudder! Some say they feel similar to penile orgasms, but more intense and far-reaching. A person may or may not ejaculate or release milky fluid from the urethra.

How do you have a prostate orgasm?

Bodies with a prostate can achieve a P-spot orgasm using various techniques, and among the most effective is with a sex toy specifically designed for this purpose.

As with all intimate experiences, start with good preparation. 

1. Prepare

Get to know your prostate vibrator by reading the user manual. Ensure your prostate vibrator is fully charged and sanitized. 

Using a prostate vibrator involves anal penetration, so you might like to freshen the area by taking a bath or shower. Some people use an enema too but this is not always essential. It’s also worth using the bathroom given that prostate stimulation and anal penetration can make you feel like you need to do so.

Then, make sure you’re relaxed and aroused so your sex toy session is more comfortable and pleasurable. Create a comfortable environment, for example with dim lighting, scented candles, music and erotica. You might want to masturbate or if you’re with a partner, engage in foreplay.

Have some high-quality water-based lubricant nearby. This is especially important for anal penetration because, unlike the vagina, this rectum is not self-lubricating.

2. Position

Apply lubricant to your prostate vibrator and/or inside your rectum. Gently insert your prostate vibrator anally. Experiment with your bodily position and the insertion depth to ensure you’re comfortable.

Important: Never insert a sex toy anally if it is not designed for this purpose. Anal-safe sex toys should have a wide, flared base or handle for safety reasons, otherwise it can get sucked inside the body and become trapped.

Excellent examples of safe prostate vibrators are the SVAKOM Vick Neo Series. These beginner-friendly vibrators have an L-shaped design with an insertable shaft and external attachment. The external component not only lets you easily remove the shaft from inside your body but also stimulates your perineum. 

For intermediate to advanced users who want to take prostate stimulation further, the SVAKOM Iker Series is ideal. Also shaped like the capital letter 'L', these anal-safe vibrators boast a pulsator in the shaft head to target your prostate and get your pulse racing!

Browse the full SVAKOM range of prostate vibrators here. SVAKOM also offers a range of anal vibrators that adults of any gender can enjoy. 

3. Play

Explore the settings of your prostate vibrator. Start slowly and vary the mode and intensity as your comfort level allows. If other features are available, give these a go. For example, your prostate vibrator might have a heating function for extra comfort and arousal, or deliver other forms of stimulation such as pulsation. If it’s waterproof, you might like to use it in the bath or shower. 

If your prostate vibrator is app-controlled, why not explore your creative side? The SVAKOM App allows you to customize settings and try long-distance partner play. Sex toys in the Connexion Series can also sync with interactive adult video and cam for even more engaging experiences.

4. Protect

After anal penetration, the area may feel more sensitive than usual. You may like to use the bathroom, clean the anal area with mild soap and warm water, and apply an appropriate soothing lotion.

Sanitize your prostate vibrator after use, recharge if needed. Store it in a safe, cool, dark and dry place.

Get down to business

Now we’ve touched on some tips to having a P-spot orgasm, it’s time to build your collection of prostate vibrators. Shop SVAKOM now.