Top 10 male masturbation tips
It’s the common pastime that few admit to doing. Most people keep this habit their own little secret even though it’s part of a healthy lifestyle – and we could learn tips from each other! We’re talking about masturbation. In particular, masturbation for bodies with a penis. So, let’s be open. Let’s raise our hands and say yes to solo sessions and how to make the most of every session.
What is masturbation?
Starting with the basics, masturbation is generally defined as stimulating your genitals for sexual pleasure. That said, masturbation can also be performed with others. Mutual masturbation is when two or more people stimulate each other’s genitals or masturbate in each other’s presence.
Why masturbate?
People masturbate for many reasons, with the most common being arousal and orgasm. Self-stimulation can help you to explore your sexual likes, dislikes, needs and wants.
Some people masturbate for non-sexual reasons, such as the fact it may help them to relax or sleep more easily at night. Masturbation, either solo or mutual, can also be practiced as a safer alternative to sex.
For penis owners, masturbation can be a way to experiment with techniques for delaying ejaculation and increasing sexual pleasure. Solo play can also provide opportunities to explore different erogenous zones and sensations before involving a partner.
You can read more about why masturbation is part of a healthy lifestyle here.
Can you masturbate too much?
Historically, masturbation has been a cause of concern among some sociocultural groups for a range of reasons (we won’t get into here), often resulting in misinformation, fear and shame.
At SVAKOM, we challenge this supposed ‘taboo’ activity. We believe all adults are entitled to sexual pleasure and wellness, and that masturbation is one way of pursuing this. It’s one of the many reasons that we thoughtfully design high-quality sex toys to make the journey fun, safe and easy. SVAKOM sex toys also let you masturbate while interacting with consenting partners, as well as adult video content and webcam viewers – we’ll get to that later!
Returning to the question of whether you can masturbate too much, the answer is no – as long as it’s not causing significant distress or interfering with any aspect of your life. If masturbation does have negative effects, then it may not be the actual problem, but rather, the expression of some underlying issue.
How to masturbate
There’s no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way to masturbate. Do what feels good for you. We all have different bodies as well as sexual needs, desires, turn ons and turn offs. That means what feels good for one person might not for another.
However, certain tips and sex toys can enhance your experience and vary your routine. So, we’ve prepared some handy tips to elevate masturbation for bodies with a penis.
Tip 1: Set your scene
Decide when and where you’ll have your solo session. Choose somewhere comfortable and private.
Next, set your scene. Think about what turns you on. Would you feel more aroused if you dimmed the lights, lit a candle or played sensual music, for example R&B or jazz music? Maybe viewing porn gets you in the mood.
Take your session slowly. It can be helpful to start with some deep breathing so you begin to let go of any stress or tension and your body enters a more relaxed state. Even if you’re about to start a spontaneous session, a few deep breaths can work wonders.
Think of this preparation as laying the foundations for a stronger result!
That said, there will probably be times when a race to the finish is just what you need… perhaps someone you don’t want walking in on you about to do exactly that.
Tip 2: Use lubricants
When it comes to masturbation and sex, wetter is always better. Generally, this applies to all bodies, regardless of sex or gender, and to internal and external erogenous zones.
Lubricants reduce friction when bodily surfaces come into contact with each other or with sex toys, therefore reducing potential discomfort and increasing glide and pleasure.
There are countless lubricants available and the best all-rounder is water-based. That’s because water-based lube is compatible with most sex toy materials and condoms, and generally washes out easily if some end up where you don’t want it to.
Water-based lubricants are available in a wide range of formulations to suit different ingredient preferences and uses. Some are thicker for anal use, while others are flavored and a particularly tasty addition to oral sex.
Whichever lubricant you choose, keep it within easy reach during your masturbation session, along with some tissues and perhaps a towel.
SVAKOM Hedy X five-piece stroker set is a convenient choice because it comes with water-based lubricant sachets so you’re all set from the start. Made for practicality, these egg-shaped sex toys each have different textures, are reusable and reversible, and come with not only a lube sachet but also a drying stand.
Tip 3: Try new body positions
For penis owners with a few masturbation sessions under their belt, you’ve probably worked out your favorite techniques getting the job done. It could be while you’re sprawled out on the sofa, sitting at your desk watching porn, lying in bed, or standing as you shower.
If you want to change your game, why not change the setting and your position? Possibilities, depending on your individual circumstances, may include masturbating in the kitchen, lying on a comfortable rug, or while soaking in a bathtub.
Solo play can also provide a valuable chance to try different sex positions before you attempt them with a partner. Admittedly this isn’t possible for all sex moves, but it’s no secret that practicing any skill helps increase performance and confidence.
Tip 4: Explore types of stimulation
Similarly to experimenting with body positions, exploring different types of stimulation can create new pathways to pleasure.
Sure, up-and-down stroking is a tried-and-tested technique for many penis owners. But have you ever tried variations, such as changing your speed, the amount of squeeze or rotating your hand as you go – this is where lube can help you to perform a comfortable and pleasurable twisting motion especially to the head of your penis.
SVAKOM offers a range of masturbators with different types of stimulation to please bodies with a penis in new and exciting ways.
Vibrating stimulation
SVAKOM Robin delivers powerful vibrations in a compact, minimalistic design. It has a thick sleeve lined with soft nubs that massage your penis while vibrations enhance sensations. There’s even a boost mode to turn up the intensity in moments.
Thrusting stimulation
SVAKOM Alex Neo 2 mimics penetrative sex by using powerful thrusting technology. Meanwhile, a thick sleeve lined with soft domes massages your penis for added realism as the sex toy’s motor does the up-and-down movement for you.
Milking stimulation
If you aren’t familiar with ‘milking’ the penis, then you’re in for a pleasant treat. SVAKOM Hannes Neo delivers this powerful type of stimulation which is often described as simultaneously squeezing and stroking the penis from the base to the head. It does this by using throbbing technology as a thick sleeve lined with soft rings massage your penis. Hannes Neo also comes with a heating function that warms the sleeve to body temperature of 38°C for more comfort and arousal.
Blowjob stimulation
Fellatio is one type of stimulation that bodies with a penis need a partner to perform – unless you have the perfect simulator. Say hello to the Sam Neo 2 Series by SVAKOM. These masturbators are designed to give better-than-real blowjob sensations thanks to their real-feel textured sleeve, powerful vibrations, and strong suction, which is delivered by contraction technology.
Sam Neo 2 and Sam Neo 2 Pro also include Extended O mode, a clever feature that reduces the sex toy intensity so you can enjoy a longer lasting climax. The Pro version even comes with a heating function to boost realism, comfort and arousal.
Tip 5: Experiment with intensities
Varying your usual routine by incorporating sex toys can allow you to explore not only different types of stimulation but also intensities.
Of course you can stroke your penis as quickly or slowly as you want, but why put your hand and arm muscles through all that work when automatic masturbators can do it for you – and at speeds the human body can’t!
On some occasions, you may want a slow and steady approach while at other times, faster movements will encourage an out-of-this-world orgasm.
The SVAKOM Sam Neo 2 Series gives you both. These masturbators offer five intensities for each mode of suction, vibration, and combined suction and vibration. And, the Extended O mode we mentioned earlier, reduces the combined mode to its lowest intensity so you can enjoy a more gradual ending and as a result, prolong your climax and delay ejaculation.
Tip 6: Include other pleasure zones
Generally, the human body has more than erogenous zones. That means masturbation for bodies with a penis doesn’t have to focus on just this hot spot. Why not explore other sensitive areas on your body and see what orgasmic experiences occur?
Possible erogenous zones you may want to stimulate include the scrotum, perineum (area between the anus and scrotum), anus, prostate, inner thighs, nipples – the list goes on. You could use your hands and some lubricant on these areas or try a sex toy.
SVAKOM Tulip is a bullet vibrator ideal for stimulating outer hot spots with precision.
SVAKOM Nymph is a wand-style vibrator with the addition of rotating fingers that deliver an incredible massage perfectly to the nipples.
SVAKOM Vick Neo stimulates the prostate and perineum with its L-shaped design, so you get two-for-one!
Tip 7: Discover the power of ‘edging’
Orgasm is often the goal of masturbation but there’s not always a need to rush to it. In fact, your climax can be more powerful if you build anticipation and delay your Big O by edging.
Basically, this technique involves getting to the ‘edge’ of an orgasm without actually letting yourself climax, and doing so repeatedly. Holding off in this way can help to increase anticipation in your mind and tension in your body so that when you finally do orgasm it feels more intense and lasts longer. For some penis owners who experience premature ejaculation, edging may also be a form of stamina training.
Tip 8: Let a partner take control
Masturbation is usually thought of as solo play – that’s even a synonym for it! However, this activity can involve a partner – think mutual masturbation. However, your partner doesn't actually have to masturbate with you or even be in the same place.
SVAKOM app-controlled sex toys give you access to a range of play options you’d miss out on if just using your pleasure product via its buttons. For example, masturbators compatible with the SVAKOM App let you share control of your sex toy with a partner at any distance.
Simply pair your masturbator (or other compatible SVAKOM product) with the app and use Remote Mode to invite your guest to control it wherever they are – they could be in the same room, same city or another country altogether. You can even use the app to text chat and video call your partner during the session.
Tip 9: Interact with adult videos
If you’re into watching porn when you masturbate, have you ever wanted to feel like you’re part of the on-screen action? SVAKOM Connexion Series sex toys let you do exactly that.
Bodies with a penis can pair a SVAKOM Connexion Series masturbator with the FeelConnect 3 App and sync with interactive adult content. Your sex toy will move based on penetration between the actors so you become more than just a viewer. Thanks to this innovative technology, your sessions go beyond touch and you can finally feel closer to the adult stars you love to watch.
Tip 10: Interact with webcams
For penis owners who want to take masturbation to a more rewarding level, inviting others to not only view but also pay you to play can be the answer. SVAKOM’s Connexion Series of adult products let you earn money when you use them during live webcam shows and viewers control your sex toy. The thrill of having consenting adults watch your sessions can not only be lucrative but also increase excitement and arousal for you and them!
Elevate your game today
There you have it – 10 ways to take masturbation for bodies with a penis to new levels. However you choose to play, remember that masturbation is part of a healthy lifestyle and that you’re entitled to pursue sexual pleasure and wellness in ways that are safe and comfortable (for you and anyone else involved).
